Saturday, May 7, 2011

How to love

You can talk to a person online for a long time, over long periods of time
and say i love you
or feel like you love them
you can know someone a long time or short time
go through a lot with them and say you love them
you can sort of like someone, but because they are a good hook up, or 'easy gobs' you can say you love them
but really love is not that at all
people always judge on how far they have gone or who they are withh appearance wise and give people so much shit about it all

but look at all married couples
there arent too many where both husband and wife are extremely good looking or have attributes like that,
and married couples are the ones who do have true love
so surely the fact that looks isnt first on the agenda should prove that appearance truly isnt, true love
if you truly are right for someone
then you can talk to them about anything
you should not care about what others think at the yougn age we are at

because you ask anyone whos finished high school,
there childhood was most fun part of there life
and where they learnt many things
so 20 years down the track, whether you got with hot girls or not wont affect anything
but what will matter, is lessons youve learnt and those amazing experiences

so if you ever do get along with someone so well, and you really think it would work out
why not go for relationship or something?
because dont care about what others say, or comments like you can do better etc
because thosejudgements are appearance, not personality
cos you can go ask all people in retirement villages what got them through it all
and its notthem both beign hot or anything like thats
its true connection and love, its having good conversations, sharing problems, and solving them together.
which is achieved not at all by appearance, but by whats inside